Being ever Confident...

When I was thinking about what theme to choose I was so lost. I lost because I was did not know what I could write about to identify with other people. But then it hit me all of a sudden. Wednesday while chilling at my aunt house with cousin I was wondering how to start me blog. He started to listen to some videos on YouTube (some of the links from the first blog) by T.D. Jakes and it got me to thinking. So I asked him why, he said he listens to them daily just to get conformation about life and my purpose for being here. I was like ok so the next few days I had started to listen. So yesterday I instantly realized that the things that I am confident in most people are not. Most people are not confident in who they are. So here is a few things to justify my theme. When you focus too much on what you want, the mind creates reasons why you cannot have it. This leads you to dwell on your weaknesses. The best way to avoid this is to focusing on gratitude. And my gratitude, I mean to me sincerely thankful. Mean it from your heart truly. Set aside time each day to mentally list everything you have to be grateful for.

Recall your past successes, unique skills, loving relationships, and positive momentum. You will be amazed how much you have going for you and motivated to take that next step towards success. Too often we get caught up in our own desires. We focus too much on ourselves and not enough on the needs of other people. If you stop thinking about yourself and concentrate on the contribution you’re making to the rest of the world, you won’t worry as much about you own flaws. This will increase self-confidence and allow you to contribute with maximum efficiency. The more you contribute to the world the more you’ll be rewarded with personal success and recognition. My cousin said that most people dwell too much on the future and that the best thing for others to do is to focus of being happy for that day. Like they always say, what God has for you is for you. So if you focus on things day by day God will show you the way because nothing happens for a reason.

Quotes to life by: http://wisewords490.tumblr.com/

Road to Destiney...

Hello everyone, Can you tell people hi through a blog? I guess so since there are not any proper rules on how someone should run or write their blog. Personally, I just want everyone to feel comfortable reading my material since I am not your typical writer. Ok I am rambling again so back to subject. Regina White (my mom) gave birth to a beautiful little girl name Destiney Elaine (me).  My last name is White; however, my father was not in my life until I was 15 so I do not define myself by using my last name. My grandmother is like my mom. She has raised me my whole life and if you ask her she will tell you that I am her daughter. I am a small town girl with a big personality. And when I say big I mean HUGE, if my friends could give an award right now I would get the "Most Dramatic Award". And Yes I am from the small town of Nashville. I know you are probably thinking about Nashville, TN because when I tell people that I am from Nashville they automatically think that I am from the Nashville that is located in Tennessee because apparently I talk very country. But no guys, I am the Nashville that is located in this natural state that we know of as Arkansas. I have lived there since I was born, and have dedicated my life to Scrapper Excellence for seventeen years.

 Over the years I have developed a sense of self encouragement which has placed an influential part on my life as well as others. This self-encouragement has influenced the things that I am interested in like shopping or anything that has to do with helping anybody else out. This has even lead me into being interested in designing t-shirts. This t-shirt line that I have be working on is about encouraging young women and men alike to be who they want to be and to not let anyone take that away from them. I would like to take my t-shirt global one day, so I am working on getting my bachelor’s degree in Business Administration with a specialization in Finance. If I am not doing school related work, I am running around like a chicken with my head cut off doing things for other people. If you have not noticed, I am a people-person and I love to talk (not write, hint hint). So I am doing things for Reddie Ambassador, Ladies League, work, and anything for my friends. I may come off as a mean person but I am really nice and will help out my friends when I can, no questions asked. Plus I am the girl with all the relationship advice so when anything happens I am the girl to call.

Now that I think about it, think the only time I am by myself not busy is when I am sleep. Tragic huh. By now I guess you guys are wondering why I chose my title to be "Destined to Imperfection." Well either way I am destined for something. Whether it’s to be a millionaire or to be a person who works at a hot dog stand, but either way I am destined. I know you can agree with that but why imperfection. The definition of Imperfection is something with a defect or flaw. And I read in the bible that there was only one perfect person. So I will accept all my flaws and be me. As you read earlier, I do not like to write at all. I am not one of those girls who had a diary, but as I write this first blog I am starting to like this. P.S. The photo below is of my boyfriend and I. We will be together for 2 years on May 1, wish me luck.

These two links below are videos that helped me realized who I was designed to be and what I could do to get there. They are religious videos.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MZpatXx4V8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MZpatXx4V8