When I was thinking about what theme to choose I was so lost. I lost because I was did not know what I could write about to identify with other people. But then it hit me all of a sudden. Wednesday while chilling at my aunt house with cousin I was wondering how to start me blog. He started to listen to some videos on YouTube (some of the links from the first blog) by T.D. Jakes and it got me to thinking. So I asked him why, he said he listens to them daily just to get conformation about life and my purpose for being here. I was like ok so the next few days I had started to listen. So yesterday I instantly realized that the things that I am confident in most people are not. Most people are not confident in who they are. So here is a few things to justify my theme. When you focus too much on what you want, the mind creates reasons why you cannot have it. This leads you to dwell on your weaknesses. The best way to avoid this is to focusing on gratitude. And my gratitude, I mean to me sincerely thankful. Mean it from your heart truly. Set aside time each day to mentally list everything you have to be grateful for.
Recall your past successes, unique skills, loving relationships, and positive momentum. You will be amazed how much you have going for you and motivated to take that next step towards success. Too often we get caught up in our own desires. We focus too much on ourselves and not enough on the needs of other people. If you stop thinking about yourself and concentrate on the contribution you’re making to the rest of the world, you won’t worry as much about you own flaws. This will increase self-confidence and allow you to contribute with maximum efficiency. The more you contribute to the world the more you’ll be rewarded with personal success and recognition. My cousin said that most people dwell too much on the future and that the best thing for others to do is to focus of being happy for that day. Like they always say, what God has for you is for you. So if you focus on things day by day God will show you the way because nothing happens for a reason.
Quotes to life by: http://wisewords490.tumblr.com/
First and foremost I absolutly love the title of the blog...Destined to Perfection and your name happens to be Destiny lol. I like the theme that you have chosen to talk about and I also agree with your reasoning becasue at many times as young adults we somwtimes find our self at the end of the road, but if we learn how to deal with certain issiues than it may be just that much easier. I also agree with those artist because I do listen to them and they do have a great affect on people!
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